Hey Donnie - I resolved my problem with Blender 2.81 and all other Blender installations from crashing at the start, by changing my main screen in win10 from a big 47" 4k TV, to one of the 1080 monitors and Blender 2.81 would open normally.
I later found someone that solved the problem of Blender crashing at the start by switching his HDMI cables. I did this and changed back my main monitor to be the center screen and Blender works great!
Now my big screen is plugged directly on the Video card before it was connected to the video port that comes with the motherboard.
I hope this helps,
George

I had this problem and tried every piece of advice without any solution to Blender, all versions not opening.
Basically all my versions of Blender closed before opening but it all started with Blender 2.81, right after no Blender would open.