Attempting to copy object data settings around based on object naming and the active scene is error prone.
Currently 2.8x should work as it does in 2.79, so we could leave it as-is.
If we consider glitches reported in T61917 as bugs, it might be better to not give users the expectation that these values should be synchronized.
This patch makes the meta-ball panel show settings from the basis to avoid having to copy settings to the bases when editing.
While calling `find_metaball_basis` on panel draw isn't great, it avoids problems synchronizing settings.
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Wary of making changes here, we can also leave this until we have more time to improve metaballs.